Ok, I've been researching this topic for some time, with difficulty...
1. A lot of reviews are US. With all due respect to our cousins across the Atlantic, what makes a good App Trail tent doesn't necessarily make a good tent for Scottish 3-4 season use
2. I can't decide on budget... what started off as a £100-150 target appears to have drifted up towards £400
3. The eternal quest / balance between price vs weight vs flexibility vs comfort vs robustness. There is no perfect answer and any tent choice is a compromise
4. Would love to do a "try before you buy" but it ain't an option!
So, what are my key criteria? In summary (and not in order):
* As light as possible, preferably under 3kg and target 2.5kg - almost always sharing the weight between 2, though
* Must sleep two blokes (medium size) who don't want to go all Brokeback Mountain - 90%+ of the time it'll be two of us
* Must stand up to Scottish 3 season use and, ideally, be able to do the occasional / careful winter camp - mostly low level, occasional high level
* Want a big vestibule as I'd prefer to change out of wet outer gear there and keep 2x rucksacks, boots etc.
* Other necessary Scottish features: midgie nets, not inner-first pitching, decent venting, good in high winds & rain
* Usually used for single overnight, but occasional multi-day trips. If pricey, I'd want it to do everything!
This says to me I need robust, without it being expedition-grade, and a large 2-man or compact 3-man. I also don't want to spend £700 on a Hilleberg Nallo 2 GT, which would otherwise be ideal...
I'm thinking tunnel tent rather than full geo, and leaning towards a Fjallraven Abisko Lightweight 2:
http://www.fjallraven.com/outdoor-equipment/tents/abisko-lightweight-2 (in green, not ghastly blue).
It's not cheap (£400+) and I'm struggling to find many reviews of it, but it seems well-appointed, well-made and pretty much exactly what I'm after. I just haven't found any reviews of people who've used it in our conditions: Scandinavia is obviously a different climate - more snow, less rain, for example. I don't want to pay more than I need to, but I'd be willing to pay that sort of price (grudgingly!) if it's going to last and do exactly what I need.
Any thoughts or alternative suggestions?