sc00ba87 wrote:it seems that there is a lot of condescension (see jmarkb’s response below, for example) when asking for advice from the more experienced walkers.
My apologies: my reply was indeed rather flippant. I took a good deal of time to reply to your previous enquiries and I reacted in an unhelpful way to your scaremongering comment: sorry. I'm not trying to put you down, and I'm sure no one else on here is either. I think maybe the reason that you feel that way is that your posts contain a number of warning signs that your experience and skills perhaps don't quite match your ambitions at this stage, and I am (as I'm sure others are) genuinely concerned for your safety and that of the people who are trusting you to take them out on the hills.
sc00ba87 wrote:I am flabbergasted that asking for information before going on a potentially dangerous expedition is considered “gung-ho”.
I think the issue is that some of the questions you are asking and statements you are making are evidencing your inexperience to a degree that worries some of us. Let me try to explain with a couple of examples:
sc00ba87 wrote:I have literally asked if there is a path leading from the Northern summit of The Cobbler to Ben Narnain or, better yet, a map with detailed views of the paths used to climb said hills.
Well, to be fair, your original post made no mention of maps. I made the assumption, perhaps incorrectly, that having been out on the hills in question, that you would already have access to a map of the area. But it appears that you don't, which is a bit concerning.
sc00ba87 wrote:At no point have I said I wouldn’t turn back if things got hairy, quite the opposite.
Of course, turning back can be a very good decision, but this strategy isn't sufficient to keep you out of trouble: things can "get hairy" when you are on the summit, or on your way down, and you need to be prepared for this eventuality too. Even on the way up, you can't always easily retrace your steps in winter conditions: paths get buried and it's surprisingly hard to follow a set of footsteps in really poor visibility and/or drifting snow conditions. Or "things can get hairy" only when you discover that going downhill on icy terrain without crampons is much harder than going up.
In the balance of probabilities, the chances are that you will get away with your adventures, and hopefully gain enough experience on the way. However, the consequences of screwing up are very serious - please don't take it lightly, please listen to the advice you are getting, and don't interpret it as grumpy old gits trying to prove they know better than you. It's up to you: you can treat this forum as a great resource to help you in your journey to become an accomplished winter mountaineer. But if you are dismissive of well-intentioned advice, it's only natural that some folk make take exception and feel less willing to help you out in the future.