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The kindness of strangers

The kindness of strangers


Postby haslertom » Mon Mar 10, 2025 12:18 pm

Munros included on this walk: A' Ghlas-bheinn, Beinn Fhada

Date walked: 09/03/2025

Time taken: 8.5 hours

Distance: 26.4 km

Ascent: 1628m

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A day of hope, disaster, salvation and success.

I set off from Morvich just after 0700 with a spring in my step. I had lucked out with the weather this weekend, and been gifted two days in Kintail with clear tops and amazing views. Today's walk was the bigger of the two - Beinn Fhada and then A'Ghlas-bheinn, with the significant height dip between them. I expected it to be tough but rewarding, and had allowed myself plenty of daylight in case my early-season legs slowed me down.

And what a morning it was. Sunny, wind-less, midge-less and a great stalkers path easing me up into Gleann Choinneachain. All smiles and positivity and feelings of self-worth, I reached the junction where the path to Beinn Fhada heads south and sat down for my first snack of the day...

Rucksack open. Why was my jacket on top? I always put my food bag in last. Dig deeper. No food. Panic. I had somehow left my food bag in the van and had nothing to eat, no snacks, nothing. My food was nearly 5km and 450m ascent behind me. My plan for the day imploded as I sat cursing my stupidity. There was no way I was going to manage my planned route without fuel and to attempt it, walking alone, would be reckless.

I couldn't believe I had made such a basic mistake. Like a lot of hill-walkers I am a pedantic planner, to the point where my family find it hilariously weird. For example, before leaving home I always lay out all my gear on the floor in the shape of a human to make sure I've got everything, even the gloves and poles.. To forget my food? - mortifying.

Amid much self-pity I decided to continue up Beinn Fhada and salvage something of the day before the long walk out and drive home to Aberdeenshire. I would take it easy, I had plenty of water. So I continued on - but now my head was in a very different place. It was full of images of the inside of my lunch bag. Two J.G Ross crushed wheat rolls full of ham and cheese and pickle, salted nuts, banana, mars bars. I could picture every morsel, and when I did I felt empty with hunger.

On upwards through Coire an Sgairne and onto the plateau. Now I was running out of energy and the last climb to the summit was a struggle. I could feel myself close to hitting some physical limit and stopping altogether. Cyclists call it 'bonking' when they haven't eaten enough and can't ride on, but I've never heard that term in hill-walking :?

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After a good rest at the top I started to re-trace my steps across the plateau. And coming up the path to meet me was a couple with a dog on a long lead. I met the dog first. He was wearing one of those jacket/harness garments with pockets on the side to carry his own food. I momentarily considered how to barter for food with a dog - '3 pats on the head for a Bonio?' but by then I had met his lovely owners. And in the course of chatting about the day and our respective routes I told them that my original plans had changed, and why. Without a moments hesitation they pulled a Mars Bar and a Snickers from their packs and insisted I take them. Embarrassed but super grateful I continued on, wolfing the Snickers as soon as I was a polite distance away. This wasn't enough food to continue on my original walk, but it was just what I needed to enjoy the rest of my descent. My mood lifted as I paced back down the long descent back into Coire an Sgairne.

And then coming down the steep descent into the lower corrie I came upon 4 more walkers. One of those meetings on the hill where 2 groups have stopped to chat, and I arrived mid-chat. One group were out for a walk up the glen and had ascended as far as they were going that day. They were having lunch in the sun next to the Allt Coire an Sgairne before heading down again. The other 2 were on a big route, having already climbed A'Ghlas-bheinn, now heading up Beinn Fhada and then descending via the Sgùrr a' Choire Ghairbh ridge. Once again I explained my day in the course of the chat, and once again before I had stopped talking people were reaching in their packs to offer me food. One ham and cheese sandwich and a Nature Valley bar later I bid my grovelingly grateful farewells and continued on.

At no point did I ask anyone for food. I am a firm believer that you need to be self-sufficient in the hills, and that scrounging food that someone else has carried up a mountain for themselves is a no-go unless you are in real trouble, which I was not. But these people were so generous when they heard about my truncated day that I got over my embarrassment and gratefully accepted once more. Now I started to dream again. I had the makings of a light lunch and perhaps I could revert to my original plan!

And that is how it worked out. I climbed A'Ghlas-bheinn on the Nature Valley bar and half the sandwich. I felt great. At the top I sat in the sun, ate the rest of the sandwich, and pondered. Mostly I pondered that there is no better food on earth than a white bread sandwich with plenty of butter, ham and mature chedder. But I also reflected on the kindness of strangers who had made my day possible, and how accepting their generosity had felt awkward but also connecting. I decided to write up my experience.

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Its a long and tiring route, but in the end I had a great walk on a perfect day. It was entirely thanks to people I had never met before and likely never will again. The Mars Bar & Snickers couple "we have loads of them, honestly", who followed me around the same route all day. The sandwich man "really, I'm stuffed already" even though he was obviously half way through his lunch. And the Nature Valley guy "its my just-in-case bar, please take it". To each of you a huge thank-you.

Some lessons from the day : 1) Check and re-check your stuff. I have spent hundreds of days in the hills and this was my first major omission. 2) Contrary to the popular view that modern society is self-serving and divided, the vast majority of people are kind and generous when they see a stranger in need. It's great.


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Re: The kindness of strangers

Postby Colin1951 » Mon Mar 10, 2025 10:09 pm

A heart warming experience. I’ve been known to forget to take my sandwiches out of the fridge but usually have cereal bars and mars bars planked in my rucksack the night before. I’m not a big eater on the hill, I hope I’d have the presence of mind to offer if I met someone in your situation.
Sounds like you had twice as great a day as you expected!
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Re: The kindness of strangers

Postby Graeme D » Mon Mar 10, 2025 11:01 pm

I've never forgotten my lunch but I have had it snatched away by the dog on Slioch just as I was about to savour it! :shock: :crazy:
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Re: The kindness of strangers

Postby Fife Flyer » Tue Mar 11, 2025 3:56 pm

Great report & once again a lesson to us all. Well done the walking community.
I once forgot my boots many years ago only to realise when I arrived at the parking area for Meall nan Tarmachan, felt a right numpty but as it was dry did the walk in my trainers - just like the Sunday afternoon walkers who trudge up the Ben.
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Re: The kindness of strangers

Postby Sitting Bull » Wed Mar 12, 2025 11:54 pm

What a topsy-turvy hill day but alls well that ends well as they say. Thanks for the eloquent and entertaining account of your adventure on a tough Munro duo at the best of times. Great to hear the hill walking community coming to the aid of a fellow in need of sustenance to get you through a challenging day safely to a conclusion. Big up to the Baggers!
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Re: The kindness of strangers

Postby haslertom » Mon Mar 17, 2025 11:35 am

Sitting Bull wrote:What a topsy-turvy hill day but alls well that ends well as they say. Thanks for the eloquent and entertaining account of your adventure on a tough Munro duo at the best of times. Great to hear the hill walking community coming to the aid of a fellow in need of sustenance to get you through a challenging day safely to a conclusion. Big up to the Baggers!


Thanks everyone for the kind comments. It was a daft mistake, but as Sitting Bull says above - big up to the Bagger community for saving me!
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Re: The kindness of strangers

Postby kevsbald » Tue Apr 01, 2025 8:12 pm

JG Ross but nae butteries! Are you sure you’re fae Aberdeenshire?! Great report. There are good fowk out there.
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Re: The kindness of strangers

Postby Gleneagle5 » Thu Apr 03, 2025 4:28 pm

Typical Aberdonian ! 😅
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Re: The kindness of strangers

Postby Sgurr » Thu Apr 03, 2025 5:52 pm

I have done this twice. I was in such a hurry to start my charity walk of Ben Nevis, where I had sold off each minute to the summit to raise money, that I left my lunch in the car with husband who had point blank refused EVER to do the tourist track again and went off to climb the Innses, which explains how I completed the Corbetts on them. Someone had brought up a whole pack of mini pork pies, and in commenting on his interesting choice of food, something I had never thought to take uo a hill, I somehow maged to scrounge one. Goodness knows how many calories I consumed beating my husband's record of 3 hours in 2 hours 59 minutes ( probably fewer than I expended in fury when he said "I couldn't really remember, it was ABOUT 3 hours, it could have been 2 hours 59)

The second was when we had started cycling to do Beinn Loinne.When we discovered we had left the lunch I had said "Never mind, we have both got emergency sweeties. True, but I had replaced the disgusting squashed Mars Bars with hygienic tic-tacs in tiny plastic boxes at either 1 or 2 calories each...it says which on the box. Luckily Beinn Loinne, although large was not as challenging as your route.
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Re: The kindness of strangers

Postby Spingalonga » Thu Apr 03, 2025 9:16 pm

Really enjoyed your report. In my experience the folk you meet in the hills are always honest decent folk, who are usually only too willing to help others out. We all forget to take certain items from time to time. I always carry too much food, on the hill and often eat very little so I would have been the ideal person to meet. I guess that those that you met were a bit like me. I have still to do these two hills, so i will be thinking of you when I do climb them. - Cheers Neil - Dundee
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